I hope these videos will help others avoid losing their sense self and inner strength as I did by myopically focusing on the “story” of future possibilities and a loving partnership, and not being present to the real-time relationship realities.
I spent two years of my life living this horribly confusing and conflicting cycle of her being “loving, fun & happy <-> accusatorial, hostile and angry”… [repeat…] in my last relationship…
Nothing worse than allowing your emotions and self to be played in so many ways, and not seeing it.
If you see consistently three or more of these traits in your significant other… RUN!
Check out the vids below which also offered me some insight into my situation.
“When a heartbreaks it don’t break even…” The Script
Wow … how informative …